So many years later, these words still hold true. Every once in a while, I'll bring them back to keep myself going.

"After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and changing a soul. You learn that love doesn't mean possession and company doesn't mean security. And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises.You begin to accept defeats with your head up and your eyes ahead with the grace of an adult and not the grief of a child. You learn to build your roads today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans and futures have ways of falling down mid-flight. After awhile, you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much. So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really can endure, that you really are strong and you really do have worth and you learn and you learn..."

I'm still learning...